soul-mining

a.k.a. an emotional one-night stand

A verb for when someone tries to cram three months of emotional intimacy into your first three hours together. It may seem exciting in the moment, but it is usually followed by never seeing each other again.

For example, "I thought it was sweet my Tinder date wanted to do the 36 questions to fall in love, but once she ghosted, I realized she was just soul-mining me."